If you have matrimonial property: You and your spouse each need to book a consultation with a lawyer to obtain legal advice on the division of assets and debt, as well as spousal support, if applicable. Once you both are aware of the range of rights and obligations you have towards each other,you are free to make financial decisions based on what works for you. If you and your spouse do not agree on division of assets and debts or the custody/parenting/spousal or child support, Mediation is a good idea who can help you to resolve those issues. Once you have achieved the above, I transcribe your agreements into court documents.